redstripes-bluelights:

I will be posting pictures of Florida Supercon this week c:
If you were part of Soul Eater cosplay please let me know :-)

yukinoshitayukinon:

The only two pictures of me that matter ngl

fierceprepon:

How to be hot and cute by Laura Prepon.

freelancemaid:

lobbygrl:

lazypacific:

“Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says ‘Come on, one drink!’ You say ‘no thanks.’ Later, he brings you a soda. ‘I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.’ For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your ‘no.’ If you say ‘Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks’ and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated.” —The Art of “No” (Jennifer P.)

I’ve never seen this post with the original caption before. I thought I loved it simply from the photography but the depth of the meaning behind it…. Wow.

Wow…..

And the same goes for guys.
You don’t owe a woman anything. Just because you’ve shown her kindness, does not entitle her to guilt you into sleeping with her.
I used to know a girl who would cry and beg for a guy to sleep with her until he did or she would take his keys and hide them and tell him he wouldn’t get them back till he slept with her. she did it all time and guys would feel like shit after and say the thought they “had” to..

It’s a 2 way street.

Respect other humans.
If a person doesn’t want to take your “act of kindness” They don’t have to.

I have made a huge mistake.

sssn-neptune-vasilias:

So I was working at the zoo today and this macaw we have needed a quick check-up because someone thought they saw it eating a candy bar but it only comes if someone is playing “Cotton Eyed Joe” (it’s a macaw someone owned for a long time but had to get rid of and the zoo offered to take it and I guess whoever owned it previously really liked Cotton Eyed Joe) and we didn’t wanna stress the bird out by tranqing it so we needed someone who knew the lyrics to Cotton Eyed Joe but no one else knew it and I just took off my shoes and silently whispered “my time has come” and everyone thought I was fucking joking until I broke out into the dumb fucking dance and started singing. I think that’s the only time that skill will ever be useful to me, but I fucking did it, be proud of me